We have friends and we have friends. There is this friend of yours whose live is decaying, knows it, but would still refuse to change. Do you care to know why?
He is so devoted to a thing such as seeing every new movie released and therefore, will not be willing to give in to change.
Your friend thinks he doesn’t have motivation… But, he has the motivation to rest, go see a movie, eat… right? Therefore, motivation isn’t the problem, rather commitment is. If you must help that friend of yours, help him stay committed to a course, and if he doesn’t want to… then he must be ready to pay the price.
That friend of yours thinks he is not attractive and believes it is required in achieving goals… therefore, he does nothing about his goal. It is easier to blame the environment than to work on your goals.
You probably care about your friend more than he does. When you try engaging him in a conversation, all he talks about are irrelevant things, and when you try to ask a question like… Do you commit time to self-development? He is like… Whaaat!
Suggest a reason why that friend of yours as refused to change his attitude… Thanks, for taking good care of your friend and for your comment.